THE SACRAMENT OF MATRIMONY
Importance Of Instruction On
This Sacrament
As it is the duty of the pastor to seek the holiness
and perfection of the faithful, his earnest desires must be in full accordance
with those expressed by the Apostle when writing to the Corinthians: I would
that all men were even as myself, 1 that is,
that all should embrace the virtue of continence. No greater happiness can
befall the faithful in this life than to have their souls distracted by no
worldly cares, the unruly desires of the flesh tranquilized and restrained, and
the mind fixed on the practice of piety and the contemplation of heavenly things.
But as, according to the same Apostle, every one hath his proper
gift from God, one after this manner, and another after that; 2 and as marriage is gifted
with great and divine blessings, so much so as truly and properly to hold a
place among the other Sacraments of the Catholic Church, and as its celebration
was honored by the presence of our Lord Himself, 3 it
is clear that this subject should be explained, particularly since we find that
St. Paul and the Prince of the Apostles have in many places minutely described
to us not only the dignity but also the duties of the married state. Filled
with the Spirit of God (these Apostles) well understood the numerous and
important advantages which must flow to Christian society from a knowledge, and
an inviolable observance by the faithful of the sanctity of marriage; while
they saw that from ignorance or disregard of (its holiness), many and serious
calamities and losses must be brought upon the Church.
The nature and meaning of marriage are, therefore, to be first explained. Vice not infrequently assumes the semblance of virtue, and hence care must be taken that the faithful be not deceived by a false appearance of marriage, and thus stain their souls with turpitude and wicked lusts. To explain this subject, let us begin with the meaning of the word itself.
The word matrimony is derived from the fact that the principal
object which a female should propose to herself in marriage is to become a
mother; or from the fact that to a mother it belongs to conceive, bring forth
and train her offspring. {a}
It is also called wedlock (conjugium) {b} from joining together,
because a lawful wife is united to her husband, as it were, by a common yoke.
It is called nuptials, {c} because, as St. Ambrose observes, the bride veiled
her face through modesty a custom which would also seem to imply that she
was to be subject and obedient to her husband. 4
Matrimony, according to the general opinion of theologians, is defined:
The conjugal union of man and woman, contracted between two
qualified persons, which obliges them to live together throughout life.
In order that the different parts of this definition may be better
understood, it should be taught that, although a perfect marriage has all the
following conditions, namely, internal consent, external compact expressed
by words, the obligation and tie which arise from the contract, and the
marriage debt by which it is consummated; yet the obligation and tie expressed
by the word union alone have the force and nature of marriage.
The special character of this union is marked by the word conjugal.
This word is added because other contracts, by which men and women bind
themselves to help each other in consideration of money received or other
reason, differ essentially from matrimony.
Next follow the words between qualified persons; for persons
excluded by law cannot contract marriage, and if they do their marriage is
invalid. Persons, for instance, within the fourth degree of kindred, a boy
before his fourteenth year, and a female before her twelfth, the ages
established by law, {d} cannot contract marriage.
The words, which obliges them to live together throughout life,
express the indissolubility of the tie which binds husband and wife. {e}
Hence it is evident that marriage consists in the tie spoken of above.
Some eminent theologians, it is true, say that it consists in the consent, as
when they define it: The consent of the man and woman. But we are to
understand them to mean that the consent is the efficient cause of marriage,
which is the doctrine of the Fathers of the Council of Florence; 5 because, without the consent and contract, the obligation and tie
cannot possibly exist.
It is most necessary that the consent be expressed in words denoting
present time.
Marriage is not a mere donation, but a mutual agreement; and therefore the
consent of one of the parties is insufficient for marriage, the consent of both
being essential.
To declare this consent words are obviously necessary. If the internal
consent alone, without any external indication, were sufficient for marriage,
it would then seem to follow as a necessary consequence, that were two persons,
living in the most separate and distant countries, to consent to marry, they
would contract a true and indissoluble marriage, even before they had mutually
signified to each other their consent by letter or messenger a consequence
as repugnant to reason as it is opposed to the decrees and established usage of
holy Church.
Rightly was it said that the consent must be expressed in words which
have reference to present time; for words which signify a future time, promise,
but do not actually unite in marriage. Besides, it is evident that what is to
be done has no present existence, and what has no present existence can have
little or no firmness or stability. Hence a man who has only promised to marry
a certain woman acquires by the promise no marriage rights, since his promise
has not yet been fulfilled. Such promises are, it is true, obligatory, and
their violation involves the offending party in a breach of faith. But he who
has once entered into the matrimonial alliance, regret it as he afterwards may,
cannot possibly change, or invalidate, or undo what has been done.
As, then, the marriage contract is not a mere promise, but a transfer
of right, by which the man actually yields the dominion of his body to the
woman, the woman the dominion of her body to the man, it must therefore be made
in words which designate the present time, the force of which words abides with
undiminished efficacy from the moment of their utterance, and binds the husband
and wife by a tie that cannot be broken.
Instead of words, however, it may be sufficient for marriage to
substitute a nod or other unequivocal sign of internal consent. Even silence,
when the result of female modesty, may be sufficient, provided the parents
answer for their daughter. {f}
Hence pastors should teach the faithful that the nature and force of
marriage consists in the tie and obligation; and that, without consummation,
the consent of the parties, expressed in the manner already explained, is
sufficient to constitute a true marriage. It is certain that our first parents
before their fall, when, according to the holy Fathers, no consummation took
place, were really united in marriage. 6 Hence the
Fathers say that marriage consists not in its use but in the consent. This
doctrine is repeated by St. Ambrose in his book On Virgins. 7 {g}
When these matters have been explained, it should be taught that
matrimony is to be considered from two points of view, either as a natural
union, since it was not invented by man but instituted by nature; or as a
Sacrament, the efficacy of which transcends the order of nature.
As grace perfects nature, and as that was not first which is
spiritual, 8 but that which is natural; afterwards
that which is spiritual, the order of our matter requires that we first
treat of Matrimony as a natural contract, imposing natural duties, and next
consider what pertains to it as a Sacrament.
The faithful, therefore, are to be taught in the first place that
marriage was instituted by God. We read in Genesis that God created them
male and female, and blessed them, saying: "Increase and multiply";
and also: "It is not good for man to be alone: let us make him a help
like unto himself.,' And a little further on: But for Adam there was not
found a helper like himself. Then the Lord God cast a deep sleep upon Adam; and
when he was fast asleep, he took one of his ribs, and filled up flesh for it.
And the Lord God built a rib which he took from Adam. into a woman, and brought
her to Adam; and Adam said: "This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my
flesh: she shall be called woman, because she was taken out of man: wherefore a
man shall leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and they shall
be two in one flesh," 9 These words, according to the authority of our Lord Himself, as
we read in St. Matthew, prove the divine institution. of Matrimony. 10 {h}
Not only did God institute marriage; He also, as the Council of Trent
declares, rendered it perpetual and indissoluble. 11 What God hath joined together, says our Lord, let not
man separate. 12
Although it belongs to marriage as a natural contract to be
indissoluble, yet its indissolubility arises principally from its nature as a
Sacrament, as it is the sacramental character that, in all its natural
relations, elevates marriage to the highest perfection. In any event,
dissolubility is at once opposed to the proper education of children, and to
the other advantages of marriage.
The words increase and multiply, 13 which were uttered by the Lord, do not impose on every individual
an obligation to marry, but only declare the purpose of the institution of
marriage. Now that the human race is widely diffused, not only is there no law
rendering marriage obligatory, but, on the contrary, virginity is highly
exalted and strongly recommended in Scripture as superior to marriage, and as a
state of greater perfection and holiness. For our Lord and Saviour taught as
follows: He that can take it, let him take it; 14 and the Apostle says: Concerning virgins I
have no commandment from the Lord; but I give counsel as having obtained mercy
from the Lord to be faithful. 15
We have now to explain why man and woman should be joined in marriage.
First of all, nature itself by an instinct implanted in both sexes impels them
to such companionship, and this is further encouraged by the hope of mutual
assistance in bearing more easily the discomforts of life and the infirmities
of old age.
A second reason for marriage is the desire of family, not so much,
however, with a view to leave after us heirs to inherit our property and
fortune, as to bring up children in the true faith and in the service of God.
That such was the principal object of the holy Patriarchs when they married is
clear from Scripture. Hence the Angel, when informing Tobias of the means of
repelling the violent assaults of the evil demon, says: I will show thee who
they are over whom the devil can prevail; for they who in such manner receive
matrimony as to shut out God from themselves and from their mind, and to give
themselves to their lust, as the horse and mule which have not understanding,
over them the devil hath power. He then adds: Thou shalt take the virgin
with the fear of the Lord, moved rather for love of children than for lust,
that in the seed of Abraham thou mayest obtain a blessing in children. 16 It was also for this reason that God instituted marriage from the
beginning; and therefore married persons who, to prevent conception or procure
abortion, have recourse to medicine, are guilty of a most heinous crime
nothing less than wicked conspiracy to commit murder.
A third reason has been added, as a consequence of the fall of our
first parents. On account of the loss of original innocence the passions began
to rise in rebellion against right reason; and man, conscious of his own
frailty and unwilling to fight the battles of the flesh, is supplied by
marriage with an antidote by which to avoid sins of lust. For fear of
fornication, says the Apostle, let every man have his own wife, and let every
woman have her own husband; 17 and a
little after, having recommended to married persons a temporary abstinence from
the marriage debt, to give themselves to prayer, he adds: Return together
again, lest Satan tempt you for your incontinency.
These are ends, some one of which, those who desire to contract
marriage piously and religiously, as becomes the children of the Saints, should
propose to themselves. If to these we add other causes which induce to contract
marriage, and, in choosing a wife, to prefer one person to another, such as the
desire of leaving an heir, wealth, beauty, illustrious descent, congeniality of
disposition such motives, because not inconsistent with the holiness of
marriage, are not to be condemned. We do not find that the Sacred Scriptures
condemn the Patriarch Jacob for having chosen Rachel for her beauty, in
preference to Lia. 18 {i} So much should be explained regarding
Matrimony as a natural contract.
It will now be necessary to explain that Matrimony is far superior in
its sacramental aspect and aims at an incomparably higher end. For as marriage,
as a natural union, was instituted from the beginning to propagate the human
race; so was the sacramental dignity subsequently conferred upon it in order
that a people might be begotten and brought up for the service and worship of
the true God and of Christ our Saviour.
Thus when Christ our Lord wished to give a sign of the intimate union
that exists between Him and His Church and of His immense love for us, He chose
especially the sacred union of man and wife. That this sign was a most
appropriate one will readily appear from the fact that of all human relations
there is none that binds so closely as the marriage-tie, and from the fact
that husband and wife are bound to one another by the bonds of the greatest
affection and love. Hence it is that Holy Writ so frequently represents to us
the divine union of Christ and the Church under the figure of marriage.
That Matrimony is a Sacrament the Church, following the authority of
the Apostle, has always held to be certain and incontestable. In his Epistle to
the Ephesians he writes: Men should love their wives as their own bodies. He
that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh, but
nourisheth it and cherisheth it, as also Christ doth the church; for we are
members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause
shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall adhere to his wife, and they
shall be two in one flesh. This is a great sacrament; but I speak in Christ and
in the church. 19 Now his expression, this is
a great sacrament, undoubtedly refers to Matrimony, and must be taken to
mean that the union of man and wife, which has God for its Author, is a
Sacrament, that is, a sacred sign of that most holy union that binds Christ our
Lord to His Church.
That this is the true and proper meaning of the Apostle's words is
shown by the ancient holy Fathers who have interpreted them, and by the
explanation furnished by the Council of Trent. 20 It
is indubitable, therefore, that the Apostle compares the husband to Christ, and
the wife to the Church; that the husband is head of the wife as Christ is the
head of the Church; 21 and that for this very reason
the husband should love his wife and the wife love and respect her husband. For
Christ loved his church, and gave himself
for her; 22 while as the same Apostle
teaches, the church is subject to Christ. 23
That grace is also signified and conferred by this Sacrament, which are
two properties that constitute the principal characteristics of each Sacrament,
is declared by the Council as follows: By his passion Christ, the Author and
Perfecter of the venerable Sacraments, merited for us the grace that perfects
the natural love (of husband and wife), confirms their indissoluble
union, and sanctifies them. 24 It should,
therefore, be shown that by the grace of this Sacrament husband and wife are
joined in the bonds of mutual love, cherish affection one towards the other,
avoid illicit attachments and passions, and so keep their marriage
honourable in all things, . . . and their bed undefiled. 25 {j}
How much the Sacrament of Matrimony is superior to the marriages made
both previous to and under the (Mosaic) Law may be judged from the fact that
though the Gentiles themselves were convinced there was something divine in
marriage, and for that reason regarded promiscuous intercourse as contrary to
the law of nature, while they also considered fornication, adultery and other
kinds of impurity to be punishable offences; yet their marriages never had any
sacramental value.
Among the Jews the laws of marriage were observed far more religiously,
and it cannot be doubted that their unions were endowed with more holiness. As
they had received from God the promise that in the seed of Abraham all nations
should be blessed, 26 it was justly considered by
them to be a very pious duty to bring forth children, and thus contribute to
the propagation of the chosen people from whom Christ the Lord and Saviour was
to derive His birth in His human nature. Still their unions also fell short of
the real nature of a Sacrament.
It should be added that if we consider the law of nature after the fall
and the Law of Moses we shall easily see that marriage had fallen from its
original honor and purity. Thus under the law of nature we read of many of the
ancient Patriarchs that they had several wives at the same time; while under
the Law of Moses 27 it was permissible, should cause exist, to
repudiate one's wife by giving her a bill of divorce. Both these (concessions)
have been suppressed by the law of the Gospel, 28 and
marriage has been restored to its original state.
Though some of the ancient Patriarchs are not to be blamed for having
married several wives, since they did not act thus without divine dispensation,
yet Christ our Lord has clearly shown that polygamy is not in keeping with the
nature of Matrimony. These are His words: For this cause shall a man leave
father and mother, and shall cleave unto his wife, and they shall be two in one
flesh; and He adds: wherefore they are no more two but one flesh. 29 In these words He makes it clear that God instituted marriage to
be the union of two, and only two persons. The same truth He has taught very
distinctly in another passage, wherein He says: Whosoever shall put away his
wife and marry another, committeth adultery against her; and if the wife
shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
30 For if it were lawful for a man to have several wives, there is
no reason why he who takes to himself a second wife, along with the wife he
already has, should be regarded as more guilty of adultery than if he had
dismissed his first wife and taken a second.
Hence it is that when an infidel who, following the customs of his
country has married several wives, happens to be converted to the true
religion, the Church orders him to dismiss all but the first, and regard her
alone as his true and lawful wife. {k}
The selfsame testimony of Christ our Lord easily proves that the
marriage-tie cannot be broken by any sort of divorce. For if by a bill of divorce
a woman were freed from the law that binds her to her husband, she might marry
another husband without being in the least guilty of adultery. Yet our Lord
says clearly: Whosoever shall put away his wife and shall marry another
committeth adultery. 31 Hence it is plain that the
bond of marriage can be dissolved by death alone, as is confirmed by the
Apostle when he says: A woman is bound by the law as long as her husband
liveth; but if her husband die she is at liberty; let her marry whom she will,
only in the Lord; 32 and again: To them that are
married, not I but the Lord commandeth, that the wife depart not from her
husband; and if she depart that she remain unmarried or be reconciled to her
husband. 33 To the wife, then, who for a just cause has left
her husband, the Apostle offers this alternative: Let her either remain
unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. Nor does holy Church permit husband
and wife to separate without weighty reasons.
Lest, however, the law of Matrimony should seem too severe on account
of its absolute indissolubility, the advantages of this indissolubility should
be pointed out.
The first (beneficial consequence) is that men are given to understand
that in entering Matrimony virtue and congeniality of disposition are to be
preferred to wealth or beauty a circumstance that cannot but prove of the
very highest advantage to the interests of society at large.
In the second place, if marriage could be dissolved by divorce, married
persons would hardly ever be without causes of disunion, which would be daily
supplied by the old enemy of peace and purity; while, on the contrary, now that
the faithful must remember that even though separated as to bed and board, they
remain none the less bound by the bond of marriage with no hope of marrying
another, they are by this very fact rendered less prone to strife and discord.
And even if it sometimes happens that husband and wife become separated, and
are unable to bear the want of their partnership any longer, they are easily
reconciled by friends and return to their common life.
The pastor should not here omit the salutary admonition of St.
Augustine who, to convince the faithful that they should not consider it a
hardship to receive back the wife they have put away for adultery, provided she
repents of her crime, observes: Why should not the Christian husband receive
back his wife when the Church receives her? And why should not the wife pardon
her adulterous but penitent husband when Christ has already pardoned him? 34 True it is
that Scripture calls him foolish who keepeth an adulteress; 35 but the
meaning refers to her who refuses to repent of her crime and quit the
disgraceful course she has entered on.
From all this it will be clear that Christian marriage is far superior
in dignity and perfection to that of Gentiles and Jews. {l}
The faithful should also be shown that there are three blessings of
marriage: children, fidelity and the Sacrament. These are blessings which to
some degree compensate for the inconveniences referred to by the Apostle in the
words: Such shall have tribulation of the flesh, 36 and they lead to this other
result that sexual intercourse, which is sinful outside of marriage, is
rendered right and honourable.
The first blessing, then, is a family, that is to say, children born of
a true and lawful wife. So highly did the Apostle esteem this blessing that he
says: The woman shall be saved by bearing children. 37 These words are to be understood not only of bearing children,
but also of bringing them up and training them to the practice of piety; for
the Apostle immediately subjoins: If she continue in faith. Scripture
says: Hast thou children? Instruct
them and bow down their necks from childhood. 38 The same is taught by the Apostle; while Tobias, Job and other
holy Patriarchs in Sacred Scripture furnish us with beautiful examples of such
training. The duties of both parents and children will, however, be set forth
in detail when we come to speak of the fourth Commandment.
The second advantage of marriage is faith, not indeed that virtue which
we receive in Baptism; but the fidelity which binds wife to husband and husband
to wife in such a way that they mutually deliver to each other power over their
bodies, promising at the same time never to violate the holy bond of Matrimony.
39 This is easily inferred from the words pronounced by Adam when
taking Eve as his wife, and which were afterwards confirmed by Christ our Lord
in the Gospel: Wherefore a man shall leave father and mother and shall
cleave to his wife and they shall be two in one flesh. 40 It is also inferred from the words of the Apostle: The wife hath
not power of her own body, but the husband: and in like manner, the husband
hath not power of his own body but the wife. 41
Justly, then, did the Lord in the Old Law ordain the most severe
penalties against adulterers who violated this conjugal fidelity. 42
Matrimonial fidelity also demands that they love one another with a
special, holy and pure love; not as adulterers love one another but as Christ
loves His Church. This is the rule laid down by the Apostle when he says: Husbands,
love your wives as Christ also loved the church. 43 And surely (Christ's) love for His Church was immense; it was a
love inspired not by His own advantage, but only by the advantage of His
spouse.
The third advantage is called the Sacrament, that is to say, the indissoluble
bond of marriage. As the Apostle has it: The Lord commanded that the wife
depart not from the husband, and if she depart that she remain unmarried or be
reconciled to' her husband; and let not the husband put away his wife. 44 And truly, if marriage as a Sacrament represents the union of
Christ with His Church, it also necessarily follows that just as Christ never
separates Himself from His Church, so in like manner the wife can never be
separated from her husband in so far as regards the marriage-tie. {m}
The more easily to preserve the holy state (of marriage) from
dissensions, the duties of husband and wife as inculcated by St. Paul and by
the Prince of the Apostles must be explained.
It is the duty of the husband to treat his wife generously and
honorably. It should not be forgotten that Eve was called by Adam his
companion. The woman, he
says, whom thou gavest me as a companion. 45
Hence it was, according to the opinion of some of the holy Fathers, that
she was formed not from the feet but from the side of man; as, on the other
hand, she was not formed from his head, in order to give her to understand that
it was not hers to command but to obey her husband.
The husband should also be constantly occupied in some honest pursuit
with a view to provide necessaries for the support of his family and to avoid
idleness, the root of almost every vice.
He is also to keep all his family in order, to correct their morals, and
see that they faithfully discharge their duties.
On the other hand, the duties of a wife are thus summed up by the
Prince of the Apostles: Let wives be subject to their husbands. that if any
believe not the word, they may be won without the word by the conversation of
the wives, considering your chaste conversation with fear. Let not their
adorning be the outward plaiting of the hair, or the wearing of gold, or the
putting on of apparel: but the hidden man of the heart in the incorruptibility
of a quiet and meek spirit, which is rich in the sight of God. For after this
manner heretofore the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves,
being in subjection to their own husbands, as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him
lord. 46
To train their children in the practice of virtue and to pay particular
attention to their domestic concerns should also be especial objects of their
attention. The wife should love to remain at home, unless compelled by
necessity to go out; and she should never presume to leave home without her
husband's consent.
Again, and in this the conjugal union chiefly consists, let wives never
forget that next to God they are to love their husbands, to esteem them above
all others, yielding to them in all things not inconsistent with Christian piety,
a willing and ready obedience.
Having explained these matters, pastors should next teach what rites
are to be observed in contracting marriage. There is no need, however, that we
dwell on these questions here. The Council of Trent has laid down fully and
accurately what must be chiefly observed; and this decree will not be unknown
to pastors. It will suffice, then, to admonish them to study to make
themselves acquainted, from the doctrine of the Council, with what regards this
subject, and to explain it carefully to the faithful. 47
But above all, lest young persons, whose period of life is marked by
extreme indiscretion, should be deceived by a merely nominal marriage and
foolishly rush into sinful love-unions, the pastor cannot too frequently
remind them that there can be no true and valid marriage unless it be
contracted in the presence of the parish priest, or of some other priest
commissioned by him, or by the Ordinary, and that of a certain number of
witnesses.
The impediments of marriage are also to be explained, a subject so
minutely and accurately treated by many grave and learned writers on the
virtues and vices as to render it an easy task to draw upon their labors,
particularly as the pastor has occasion to have such works continually in his
hands. The instructions, therefore, which such books contain, and also the
decrees of the Council with regard to the impediments arising from spiritual
relationship, from public honesty, and from fornication, the pastor should
peruse with attention and expound with care. 48 {n}
From the above may be learned the dispositions with which the faithful
should contract matrimony. They should consider that they are about to enter
upon a work that is not human but divine. The example of the Fathers of the Old
Law, who esteemed marriage as a most holy and religious rite, although it had
not then been raised to the dignity of a Sacrament, shows the singular purity
of soul and piety (with which Christians should approach marriage). {o}
Among other things, children should be exhorted earnestly that they owe
as a tribute of respect to their parents, or to those under whose guardianship
and authority they are placed, not to contract marriage without their
knowledge, still less in defiance of their express wishes. It should be
observed that in the Old Law children were always given in marriage by their
fathers; and that the will of the parent is always to have very great influence
on the choice of the child, is clear from these words of the Apostle He that
giveth his virgin in marriage doth well; and he that giveth her not, doth better.
49
Finally, the use of marriage is a subject which pastors should so treat
as to avoid any expression that may be unfit to meet the ears of the faithful,
that may be calculated to offend the piety of some, or excite the laughter of.
others. The words of the Lord are chaste words; 50 and the teacher of a Christian people should make use of the same
kind of language, one that is characterized by singular gravity and purity of
soul. Two lessons of instruction to the faithful are, then, to be specially
insisted upon.
The first is that marriage is not to be used for purposes of lust or
sensuality, but that its use is to be restrained within those limits which, as
we have already shown, have been fixed by the Lord. It should be remembered that
the Apostle admonishes: They that have wives, let them be as though they had
them not, 51 and that St. Jerome says: The love which
a wise man cherishes towards his wife is the result of judgment, not the
impulse of passion; he governs the impetuosity of desire, and is not hurried
into indulgence. There is nothing more shameful than that a husband should love
his wife as an adulteress. 52
But as every blessing is to be obtained from God by holy prayer, the faithful
are also to be taught sometimes to abstain from the marriage debt, in order to
devote themselves to prayer. Let the faithful understand that (this religious
continence), according to the proper and holy injunction of our predecessors,
is particularly to be observed for at least three days before Communion, and
oftener during the solemn fast of Lent.
Thus will they find the blessings of marriage to be daily increased by
an abundance of divine grace; and living in the pursuit of piety, they will not
only spend this life in peace and tranquillity, but will also repose in the
true and firm hope, which confoundeth not, 53 of arriving, through the divine goodness, at the possession of
that life which is eternal. {p}
Endnotes – The Sacrament of Matrimony
1>
1
Cor. vii.7.
2>
1
Cor. vii. 7.
3>
John
ii. 2.
4>
De
Abraham, lib. 1. c. 9.
5>
Decr.
ad Armenos.
6>
Gen.
ii. 22.
7>
Cap.
6.
8>
1
Cor. xv. 46.
9>
Gen.
i. 27, 28; Gen. ii. 18, 21-24.
10> Matt. xix. 6.
11> Sess. xxiv, in the beginning
and canons 5, 7.
12> Matt. xix. 6.
13> Gen. i. 28.
14> Matt. xix. 12.
15> 1 Cor vii. 25.
16> Tobias vi. 16, 17, 22.
17> 1 Cor. vii. 2.
18> Gen xxix.
19> Eph. v. 28, 32.
20> Sess. xxiv, De Matr., in the
beginning, and can. 1
21> Eph. v. 23.
22> Eph. v.25.
23> Eph. v. 24.
24> L. c.
25> Heb. xiii. 4.
26> Gen xxii. 18.
27> Deut. xxiv. 1.
28> Matt. xix. 9.
29> Matt. xix. 5, 6.
30> Mark x. 11, 12.
31> Luke xvi. 18.
32> 1 Cor. vii. 39.
33> 1 Cor. vii. 10.
34> De Adult. Conjug. lib. ii.
cc.6, 9.
35> Prov. xviii. 22.
36> 1 Cor. vii. 28.
37> 1 Tim. ii. 15.
38> Eccl. vii. 25
39> Gen. ii. 24.
40> Matt. xix. 5.
41> 1 Cor. vii. 4.
42> Num. v. 12 ff
43> Eph. v. 25.
44> 1 Cor. vii.10
45> Gen. iii. 12.
46> 1 Pet. iii. 1 ff.
47> Sess. xxiv. Decret de
Reformat Matrimon.
48> L. c. cap. 2-4.
49> 1 Cor. vii. 38.
50> Ps. xi.7.
51> 1 Cor. vii. 29.
52> Contra Iovian. lib. i.
53> Rom. v. 5.
{a} The term
“matrimony” is derived from matris munus, office of a mother.
{b} The word
“conjugium” literally means a yoking together.
{c} The
Latin “nuptiæ” comes from nubere, to veil one’s self.
{d}
According to the New Code of Canon Law the impediment of consanguinity
extends to the third degree of the collateral line (c. 1076), the ages required for valid marriage in the
husband and wife are the sixteenth and fourteenth years completed respectively
(c. 1067).
{e} On the
names and definition of Matrimony see Summa Theol. Suppl. xliv.; St. Alphonsus,
Theol. Mor. vi. 879.
{f} The
parties must now express consent in words, if they can speak. (Canon 1088. 2)
{g} On the
consent of marriage see Summa Theol. Suppl. xlv-xlviii; St. Alphonsus, Theol.
Mor. vi. 885-896; Code of Canon
Law, canons 1081-1093.
{h} On the
necessity and lawfulness of marriage see Summa Theol. Suppl. xli.
{i} On the
ends of marriage see St. Alphonsus, Theol. Mor. vi. 881-883.
{j} On
marriage as a Sacrament see Summa Theol.
Suppl. xlii; St. Alphonsus, Theol. Mor. vi. 880, 897-899.
{k} On this
subject see the Code of Canon Law, canon 1125.
{l} On the
unity and indissolubility of marriage see Summa Theol. Suppl. lxv- lxvii;
St. Alphonsus, Theol. Mor. vi. 956-977;
Code of Canon Law, canons 1110 ff.
{m} On the three blessings of marriage see Summa
Theol. Suppl, xlix.
{n} On the
impediments of marriage see Summa Theol. Suppl. l-lxii; St. Alphonsus, Theol.
Mor. vi. 978-1148; Code of Canon Law, canons 1035 ff.; on the form of
celebration see canons 1094 ff.
(o)
On
the dispositions for marriage see St. Alphonsus, Theol. Mor. vi. 884.
(p)
On
the use of marriage see Summa Theol. Suppl. lxiv; St. Alphonsus, Theol. Mor.
vi. 900-955.